How can I add to this ILP with all binary variables (again related to this question):
$$\min \sum_{1\leq i<j\leq n-1-h} t_{i,j}$$ $$\sum_{i=1}^{n-1-h} a_{k,i} \ge \lfloor (n-1)/2\rfloor \qquad \text{for }k\in[h];$$ $$a_{k,i} + a_{k,j} \leq 2 d_{k,i,j}\qquad \text{for }1\leq i<j\leq n-1-h,\ k\in[h];$$ $$\sum_{k=1}^h d_{k,i,j} \leq h - 1 + t_{i,j}\quad \text{for }1\leq i<j\leq n-1-h$$
where I have modified $=$ into $\ge$ with respect to the linked question, the requirement that for each row $k$ of the $h \times n-h-1$ matrix $A$ with elements $a_{k,i}$ there exists at least another row $p$ with elements $a_{p,i}$ such that there are at least $m = \lceil(n+1)/4\rceil-1$ indexes $1 \le i_1 \le \ldots \le i_m \le n-1-h$ such that $a_{k,i_j}=1 \land a_{p,i_j}=0$, $1 \le j \le m$?